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Channeling Friend’s Daily Offering, information taken from Life Readings Channeled through Friend since 1983 and edited for privacy

Daily Stress

 

Calming Moment

Moment to calm stress and see clearly

MJ during reading with Friend:

It seems like the daily stress is rising for me and I’m constantly worried about forgetting things. I have a calendar, a day planner; I put my reminders in my computer and phone. But I feel as if I am always behind. I’m running forever running to catch up.

Friend during a Channeling Reading:

This has become a very real problem with certain people and I do understand your dedication to your family, job and community…that shows you are trying to please and do well. As well as make changes for the good. But obviously if you can put your feelings in such a precise way saying; ‘always running’ then it has to be time to slow down and become more relaxed about your hours in the day.

Here are a few things you might try and see if it helps:

  1. Allow yourself to check for email three times a day only and to respond twice. You will see that when you set your pattern other people will adjust to it. They will know you do your mail at the beginning and end of day and that you only respond in the morning for the days issues. With the exception of high priority emails…you will simply know that there may be email in your inbox all the time…but you do go through and edit on a set schedule.
  2. Tell yourself that certain times are turn off phone and text times. Maybe for ½ of your lunch hour you go silent…and after 7PM you are silent. This means that others will soon learn your routine and respond in kind. Just because someone sends you a text or leaves you a message, does not mean you have to respond. Don’t allow yourself to respond to each message…respond when you have time and ignore the pull to have your fingers in movement at all times. For instance…when you are driving or shopping or at the library…you need and must have free quiet time so your mind can regroup.
  3. Take time, each time you go to the bathroom…to take deep breaths as you wash your hands and think of yourself as re-energizing yourself. This is like a mini meditation. It will keep you centered and allow messages from your own guides to filter through, as well as energy from those that you love.
  4. Journal each evening before you go to sleep…get quiet and just write things down…lists, to do’s, ideas, and prayers…just write for a few minutes. It will clear out your mind each evening so you can have a restful sleep. It will also allow your dreams to guide you with answers to your questions or worries.
  5. Stay sharp on your diet. If you are in a run, your food is running with you. This is one of the biggest mistakes people make in their thirties and forties…they begin to think food is unimportant and before they know it  their health starts to slip. That is really unwise thinking. Your body will not function well without the proper food. I don’t have to inform you on food, I know you know what is good for you or not. But I will remind you there is no excuse for not taking good food with you during the day. Get a good chill bag and pack it with the right snacks, filtered water, and supplements…so you can find that boost of energy when you feel down and out late in the afternoon.
  6. Finally, remember that you have to set rules for yourself before you set them for others. You have to say to yourself…’I’m important, what I do and say is important…so I am going to give my energy at a time and place that is good for me’. Feeling like others will judge you if you are not everything to everyone, is immature thinking – change it!
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Channeling Friend’s Daily Offering – information taken from Life Readings Channeled through Friend since 1983 and edited for privacy

Nothing is Working Out >said Dan to friend in a reading

I had a relationship and was ready for a commitment and she broke it off. I had long time friend that simply was not honorable to me. I wanted to find a new job and I am still unemployed. I moved to a new area and now I have to return to my home area to find work. I used a plan of action, positive motivation and worked the plan. I feel hurt and defeated. Why did it all fall apart?

Friend to Dan> You know going over and over your choices is pointless. You have taken enough time in worry over it all. Let’s do what we can do and regroup and get it right this time. Lets leave it behind as you drive away and have a smile on your face for the new start – 

  1. You left a very sad marriage that was not working and you began to find your own self again. You found a person that you enjoyed and her children that you found fun and charming. You got along, learned to talk things over and you even went so far as to start to think about making another commitment. If you take it from a higher view, you can see how far you have come in your growth. You have learned what does work and does not work. You have become comfortable being on your own and now you are prepared to sort through people and find a person that hits all of your needs and at the same time know how to give them support and caring back. Good Job!
  2. You made a big investment decision in your life on the advise of along time friend. That investment did not pay off, but even more important your friend did not stand by your side during the ride. That was a very hurtful event and I understand that hurt. Once again, you stood tall, you followed the rules, you stayed loyal and you were and are a good friend. Your hurt is the grief of losing a life long friendship and those are worth greiving over.  You win – he doesn’t.
  3. You have perfectly good skills for the job market and you have not been successful in gaining a job. You have filled out forms, taken classes, talked to new people about work, keep a weekly log of your job hunt. I see that as outstanding work. The fact that you have not found a job where you are and you feel you have to return to a home base area where work is more plentifull is not your failure it is your wise move.
  4. You feel you are being forced to do work that you do not want to do and you need to make a change. That is true but your developed skills will carry you through for the next year or two until the job market refreshes. You can continue to look for a job in different fields and now you know how to look, you know how to use the computer, you have new skills and you have nothing to stop you from growth. Your age may have been a hurdle before, but now you are updated with new skills and you can make a change much easier than ever before. Good steps of growth on your part!
  5. You have had so many health challenges that you are in debt and feel totally helpless with no income but employment benifits. You have decided to file for bankruptcy and you feel that will lift you up to begin again with a new job after your move back to your home area. I think your steps to keep your creditors in line and informed have been well done and now the legal reboot will allow you to see new release in your spirit and allow your health to continue to strengthen.
  6. Your long hours of reading, journal, doing to do lists, motivation study and giving back in support of your friendships has done nothing but strenghten you. You see the world in a larger view, you feel the right and wrong of life in a more realistic eye, you have your own agenda in order and that makes your life more centered. It may feel like failure to you, but to me, it is more than success, it’s growth.

There are times when taking a path that is new and purposely choosing to learn means the way is really rough and hard. It has been that for you as well as lonely. But you have made the journey with honor, you have learned so much along the way. The man that hated his life, his job, his wife, his living area, his health and his pathway – that man has left the room. He is gone. Instead of seeing your last three years as failures take another look – you have left something behind, you left your old you back there-

You are now a new person;

  • You know what kind of person you want to commitment to and how to talk to them and make decisions that are dual not one sided. You know they must have to have their own demons worked out and be ready to grow. You are ready to give, but you know you must demand respect and your own behalf of the relationship in return. You know the age range and personality that is right for you and you will wait to find her, instead of settling on anyone at the door of life.
  • You know that children are not something to avoid but to enjoy and find fun to be around on a full time basis. That you do have a father side to your personality and you enjoy sharing it. you have history and stories to share to others and you find children absorb those things and make them theirs. It is an excitement to see you can enhance the life of another with your love and attention.
  • You know that work is not something to be done without proper rest and mental adjustment. That working with others takes patience and good polite behavior so you can be a part of a team, not always work alone. That your skills and life of experience in many things, mean you can do many different jobs not just one.
  •  You have found that friends do not know all – that they can not always have your own best interest in their mind. That they are to be enjoyed and remain special, but that your own ideas and decisions have to be based in your mind and heart. Friends are to enjoy and give to, but true friends give back. Being with a friend means you are happy when they leave you, not upset and sad. Giving should be equal in heart not overloaded on one side of the friendship or another.
  • You learned that saying NO is important to learn. You have had to say it more in the last few years than ever before, but each time you do you get stronger. No to bad behavior in your own life and No to others who take advantage of you. No is now a part of who you are.
  • You now know that your working skills are at a high level and you have no reason to tell yourself jobless means skill-less. That is not true, you are simply going to a new area to find work that you can do easily for good money. It is your choice for a less stressful life, and that is always a good choice.
  • You now know that your future means a new type of work, so your new computer skills, people skills and review of life will help guide you to a new type of job that you can do in your mature years. You love to be busy and working is important to your mental health.
  • You now know that you can live on your own, but you choose to be surrounded by friends. Your life can not be tucked away for days or nights at a time. So, once you get yourself working again, you can spread your wings on your days off and go and see friends, visit those that need you in care centers, and develop your spiritual side to fill you.
  • Most of all you have found that making a decision to move from one place to another is not a failure, it is a choice. It is based on your review of what is available for your best interest and then making a move on that information. At any time you can move again, and make another change, life does not have to be spent inside a 100 miles circle, it needs to grow legs and expand.
  • Your skills with reading ideas, journaling, doing motivation and listening to your own heart now has you on a self guidance course. That is the best way to live – to bud an idea, then review it, learn about it, get quiet and pray over it and then to walk the walk to make it real. Those are the steps and you will do them where ever you are living and who ever you are loving. You have won the battle, you are a new you…stronger and more knowing.

Often goals are not met and it’s only natural to think you failed. But when you take time to review it you can see that your ideas were not wrong, nor were your actions – the timing was just off. You just need to tweek the idea again and start the process all over. That is what life is about, how you handle the daily challenges with spirit and your own mind and then begin again. I am proud of your efforts

Begin again – friend

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Channeling Friend’s Daily Offering – information taken from Life Readings Channeled through Friend since 1983 and edited for privacy

ESCAPE Friend in phone reading with client: I understand you feel totally terrified. You have no money, no job, you have no place to live and you have left the relationship you thought would make you happy. So, just know I understand that every single step you have taken is scary and you have no other alternative but to make all of these changes. You are the brave one, you are the one to celebrate as FREE – you have chosen loving yourself over losing yourself – I am very pleased with your actions and proud of you.

  1. First, you have to find a place to live. I would march right up to the nearest church and ask them for their community outreach program to help you. Even if it is one night’s rest in the church, you will be able to sleep and get rest. They will help you, they are there to help you. Do not be afraid to ask for help, that is what people have been giving their Sunday collections toward. You will get a connection for emergency money for food and a place to live.
  2. There are special shelters for those that have fear from abuse, you need to ask about them and have someone take you there. Do not wander around where you can be seen – if you are in danger, ask others to help you out of danger.
  3. Then the next step is to go to the Department of Human Resources in your area and get bus passes, food coupons, and direction with job placement. They will give you a listing and ask them as many questions as you can. You will need to have a mail box for most of your information coming to you. I would ask at the church or the shelter if you can use that address for a month for a mail box – so you can get your help and then you will be in a new place to live and you can use your own address.
  4. Just stand in line and stand up straight and tell them your story as you know it to be true. There is nothing you have done to be ashamed of – you have just had things happen that now have to be corrected. The staff at these places are trained to help you, they may be over worked so be very patient and always smile and say thank you for your time. That is how you get helped before others, you show them you appreciate their care, not act like you deserve the help.
  5. Now the hardest thing is to begin to think of yourself as already in your new home, in your new job and in your new life. You have to sit and wait in lines at these places, so just rest and think about your future. What type of apartment you want to have around you. Picture the windows bringing in light, the paint all clean and the kitchen all bright. Picture nice furniture in the place with a special chair for you to use at night. Then picture a job place, busy, interesting, nice people to work along side of and the boss welcoming you into the job. Keep your mind focused on success even if all around you says failure – you have to think success.
  6. Force out the old negative bad thoughts, the worry over the past, the fear over the physical violence – everytime you catch yourself in worry – think about that new apartment, what color will you paint it, what kind of furniture will you fill it with and what will be in your cupboards or closets. Force your mind to think positive and fruitful thoughts…keep on the future, make your mind work in a way that will bring good things into your life, not repeat old ways of sadness.
  7. Think of three things that you are going to do for yourself when you get your job. A. buy a new purse, B. buy bananas just for you C. pick up a green plant at the store to enjoy. This is your life, what are your own three things to look forward to bringing into your life?
  8. Write down notes, take note of the names of people that help you and are kind, you can call them back if you get into a problem or have a question. Write down your personal information in a good easy to read printing. You do not want to have anyone skip over you because your form was not filled out.
  9. Remember, you are not at this point because you did any thing wrong, you are here because you are choosing a new life and that’s a good thing that has an element of excitement in it. Yes, it is scary, but Yes it is exciting. Keeping safe, if you need a shelter..you have to admit you are in trouble and you need a haven to be safe. Just as you would reach down and pick up a small kitten in the pathway of a large charging dog…so will others reach over and guide you to a shelter that is protected from anyone that wants to do you harm.

Your mind is your key…your mind, not your body. You have to think; I have a new job, I have a new home, I am safe and I am ready to begin this new life. No matter what you age, or how you look, or how you talk, you have to think NEW LIFE. You have to repeat it over and over and even when you are confronted with fear, you have to repeat it and believe it. Others will help you, but you have to ask. This is not the time to be the independent uppity lady who knows it all – this is the time, when you simply are honest about where you are and ask to be guided to places that can give you assistance.

To be brave enough to leave an uncomfortable place that still gave you a home, food and a place to belong – that was very hard to do. You have already taken those steps. The rest of your journey is just a journey. If you take it wisely, the journey will find an ending that gives you peace and your own life back again. No more living through another’s life…now you will have your own.

Now remember, do not allow yourself to think, I haven’t worked in a long time I don’t know what kind of a job I could get! NO, you have to think about how the job is going to make you feel…not what kind of job…how it will make you feel. I have a good job with a paycheck, I go to work with nice people, I stay busy and feel good about my work and I come home and can afford an apartment and food and I am safe. That is how you think about the job, not in terms of fear, but in terms of being content and happy to go to work, again!

Stop thinking about how you look, if you are to thin or too heavy, or have no clothes no one cares about those things but you. No one sees that but you, you have to force yourself to see your own loving body in a healthy light with new, clean clothing and know you are going to be health and well and serve your new life with joy, no fear. (End of shared reading)

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Friend’s Daily Offering is collected from Channeled Readings since 1983 and is edited for privacy.

Deep Worry Over Moneya condition that affects so many people in different ways that Friend wanted to share how he handles it on a one on one – this is totally different for each person that comes to him for a reading – the following is just a sample of one of his readings.

Client to Friend in Channeled Reading: I am overwhelmed with fear over money. I simply am stuck in the middle of so many different things that are affecting me that I find myself trapped in fear. I try to change my brain but I am thinking panic all the time and it is ruining my relationships and my whole life.

Friend to Client via phone Reading: I am so sorry you have this in your life. So, let’s talk a little about it. You have been a person in the past with a good income; I can feel that you have had a lot of prosperity, so I suppose this down turn has you confused.

Client to Friend: It does, you are right, I have had a good job all my life and now the work is simply not there. Plus, my wife’s health is not good and she has required a lot of time off from her work and our son is now in need of extra help financially and I am just not there for him at all.

Friend to Client: I understand that means that you are stuck in a place where you began to have lack and then it just got caught up in more and more. So, first, let’s talk about being brave enough to believe in a plan of action. What I will share sounds so benign that it could never help you…but I assure you it does help. So, I am going to ask you a favor and to follow these steps and just give it a try. After all, you are talking to me today because things are so bad you need guidance, so give this a chance.

Now we will begin. Fear is simply not allowed in your life, because it kills so many other emotions. You do understand that everyone has fear, but it has to be put down immediately in order for your life to flow. So fear is out. Now that sounds easy but before we talk about prosperity, we have to deal with this overwhelming fear issue right now to get it taken care of from this moment on.

  • The moment that you feel fear, just let it flow over you. Take note of what the source of the fear is at the time. You may automatically think its fear of not having enough to pay bills, so you ignore the bill pile. But it may be that you’re really fearful of telling your wife that money is at a very critical low and she has to understand that spending needs to be stopped not just reduced. What is your fear? You see, fear could be something totally different from what you think and to dissipate the fear, you have to know what it is that you are worried about to the point that brings feelings of fear.
  • Once the feeling of fear comes over you. How is it starting to form in your mind? Do you feel alone, do you want to hide the feelings; can you share your feelings? Many times people find that the feeling of fear is more the feeling of being totally alone facing a problem. That brings on the feeling of fear, so this is when you have to reach out and talk to your wife, or your best friend, sibling, parent or so on. The person you confide in to bring you a feeling that the worry you have is now voiced and out in public. Many times keeping problems to yourself, because you feel they will bother others, or bring embarrassment, will start the downturn of worry into fear and then make it worse and worse.
  • Facing the problem, talking about the problem is the way that you can take the fear down into small pieces to get rid of it or reduce it down to a place that you find it less stressful.
  • Dealing with the worse. I have many clients that come to me for reading in the middle of a crisis. They may have a spouse in hospital and they want to talk about how to deal with their health and get them through the crisis. They are often shocked when I ask them to spend a moment to think about what would happen if their spouse was suddenly gone. They do not want to talk about anything that depressing – they want to think of how to make the spouse well. I do not bring up the subject to depress them; I bring up the worse thought – to give it light. If you talk about the worse that could happen and get a feeling for it and roll it around in your mind. Then you can put those feelings away and re-direct your mind to the present and the healing of the spouse. The mind is now able to release the inner fear of the unknown and deal with the current emergency with a clear view.
  • I would like you to do some journaling. I know you are busy, tired and journaling may seem childish. I assure you it is not childish, it is how you figure out problems for yourself. Journaling is done in private; your thoughts are your own, so make this a private task. Get a spiral notebook and just sit down before you go to bed and write a few things down for me. I want you to do this for seven days. The mind and body have a rule of healing that is seven days to make a start, 21 days to change a habit, 84 days to change your health – so there is some work to do.
  • Write down each evening one page with three things that are the worst outcome to your current top three problems. Face it and write it down. You would lose all your money in your savings, you could lose your home, you could lose your job, and you could lose your marriage. Write down only three problems that would be the worst, then under each of those write down three things that you think would be the worst about those problems. If you lose all your savings you would probably lose your credit line and that would start another line of problems and so on. If you lose your marriage, you would have to move out and live on your own, not see your children as much, suffer from the loss of your friendship with your wife. You see how it goes, you face – not solve – just face the worst of your issues. The worst thoughts right on the paper…day after day.
  • New Journal Page each night: Three things that you want to do when the money comes back into your life – just three things each night. Maybe you will buy something, repair something, or go somewhere. But write three things down on a new page, each night.
  • New Page each night: Three things that you can do to bring in money from the universe that you are not doing now. Think about this. You cannot write down more work at work. No, you have to think of things to do to bring in money from any other source than you already have at your finger tips. You could write down something that you could sell on eBay, you could write down a service you could do for others, a small business that you could start, a second job you could do on the weekends, or any other way that money could come to you from the universe. The Universe meaning from any and all directions in any or all ways – without limits.
  • Now, one more thing. In a private place you need to write down a line of positive thinking that you can see during the day. Maybe put it on your computer screen or your bathroom mirror, or on your car dashboard, or the refrigerator. You need to write it down and you need to say it a minimum of three times a day – out loud…so, you can hear yourself saying the words: “I have an infinite abundance of love, money and health in my life and my needs are always met – I feel safe and I feel loved”

     

OK, that’s that for now. You have some thinking to do on this. Each night you have writing to do. Each day you have thoughts to review and change. You have your positive motivation to read and you have to trust in me. I know this is not giving you a check to walk out the door with or solving world peace. But you have to understand that it takes small movements to begin a big change. If you watch a bird, they will begin to just flap their wings and then they rise. This is just wing flapping I know, but trust me when you come back to me for your next reading in a week – we will both feel a change in your prosperity to the better. It may be tiny or it may be a big boost, but there will be a change and then we will take the next step.

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Zapping Energy – Friend’s Daily Offering; On zapping energy from others and not knowing you do it. This is edited from many Channeled readings with Friend since 1983 – details and names held for privacy.

Are you finding you have not heard from close friends lately? Do you find that when you are out and about others tend to stand back from you, or sit away from you? Are you giving others your thoughts and ideas and nothing seems to be coming back to you from them? Do you feel family or friends are not paying as much attention to their relationship with you, as you are to them? Are you not getting attention at work, or having negative job interviews?

Some times, just when you feel that you are the stand up guy and you are doing so much for others – there is a quiet under current of your feeling that you do not get what you deserve or the attention that you enjoy. In your mind you tend to think, “They don’t love me, or like me, or care about me.” – Is that true?

Client to Friend during Channeled Phone Reading:I have been feeling left out of things for quite some time now. I attend a family function and find siblings that do not spend time talking to me. I go out after work with co-workers and they tend to ignor me, they are pleasant enough, just not interactive. I try to do things for others and I do not understand why others do not respond with friendship towards me.

Friend to Client: I know that you do good things for others. I’m thinking of how you helped your neighbor recently with his car and that was kind and giving and no money was exchanged, just you giving to him. So, the idea of your giving is there but I think it may be lost some where behind other things in your life. You want others to see you as the friendly, giving and loyal person you are, not a person that gives off negative feelings.

Client to Friend in Channeled Phone Reading: I don’t understand lost, what is lost? I helped the neighbor, I watched my sister’s kids last week and she arrived took them home with out even staying to visit. I finished a big report at work that was really to be done by two other people but they were swamped and so I did the work and they did thank me, but they didn’t buy me coffee or chat about the report at all. It ‘s like I’m not there – I’m being ignored.

Friend to Client:I don’t think that’s it at all – I think it may be just the opposite. You see you have been very down in your emotions for a long time. You are still upset over your relationship break-up and that was almost two years ago. It has changed you, you have gotten yourself in such a down mode and so involved with overall sadness that your energy level is really dipping. You have had quite a few colds and allergy attacks lately and that’s unusual for you, you usually have a high tolerance to illness. You have withdrawn from your usual hobbies, you rarely hike, do not spend time on the yard – just mow the grass and you no longer even get your motorcycle out of the garage to clean – let alone ride, is this not the case?

Client to Friend: Yes, that is true, I just feel tired all the time. Maybe there’s something wrong with me physically? Should I get a check up?

Friend to  Client:  I do not think it’s physical in that way, I think what has happened is that you are so low in your emotions that you are carrying around a dark cloud over your head. Do you understand what I mean by that? You certainly do not want this low energy to come across in a job review, or hiring, or just that your boss sees you as tired.

Client to Friend: Well, I suppose so, it has been a long time since I have done anything fun, but that’s because my friends just do not seem to want to be with me any more.

Friend to Client:I’m sure that’s how you see it. But I think what’s happening is that when you are out and about and you are feeling a bit  low and tired, you tend to be drawn to high energy people. The most productive people in the office were so busy that you gave them a hand with their project that was due. That is a kind thing, but you were drawn to them with their energy. When you were around them you felt good, excited to be around high energy people. The same with your family members. The problem is that when you are around them, you are feeling their energy and it makes you feel good…so you actually take their energy. I know it may seem strange. But that is the reason that they do not stay in close to you…they feel you drawing from their energy when they’re around you -they walk away tired, frustrated, or confused. You become someone that does not make them feel good to be around. Now, I did not say you did something nasty to them, they just get an inner pull that you’re not giving them energy back, your interaction is not pleasant for them. So they retreat. If asked they would never say they disliked you in any way.

Client to Friend:You know I have to tell you something odd. My niece told me last week that I made her tired. She’s only five so I thought that was a strange thing to say, but she is a very sweet little thing and I wondered where that came from.

Friend to Client:Energy is a strange thing. You have it, but you don’t wear it on the outside of your clothes so it’s hard thing to check on its level. What you can check is how you feel. Lately- that has been down, tired and now rejected by friends. Since there is nothing about you that is bad or nasty, you are a nice person…the energy level thing is very important to look at. You can not tell if this is really something that’s true for you or not – so let’s just go over some things for you to try – so you can bring your own energy up instead of gleaning energy from others when you are around them.

  • In the morning when you wake up. First thing, stand up and stretch. Just a stretch like a cat would do…nice and tall. Stretch yourself out and tell yourself that you have had a good night’s rest and you are ready for the day. (even if you feel tired, tell yourself you have had a good night’s rest)
  • Do your morning toilet, shower and make sure you eat a meal. Now if you find eating is hard, then be prepared. Buy food that can be heated quickly and eaten, like frozen quiches, or frozen pancakes. Fast and easy, but real food that will fill you up and give you energy for the morning, not just coffee.
  • Before you leave for the day….take three deep breathes and feel the oxygen pulled up in your lungs and into your brain. Then take off and do what ever you do during the day.
  • Sit something on your desk at work that draws people over to you. How about a jar of candy..that will pull folks over to take a piece. You keep it filled for a while and when they come over, just look up and say, “Hi John, have a good day.” Turn around and continue to do your work. What you have done is given John a candy and a positive response to his visit with you. You have taken nothing from him. He leaves feeling good about you.
  • If you feel tired around 11ish, then you know you have a fall in energy. Since that is not a good thing for you, since you have a problem with energy overall…then get up from the office area and walk and take in a few deep breaths. Have an energy drink or bar in your office drawer to give you power to continue on until lunch. Then at lunch you will have energy on a higher level, you can invite another worker and when you go out, you are not dragging. Your energy is still in a good place and you’re able to have a higher level conversation, eat good things and leave your friend feeling he has had a nice time, not time with a person that pulled him down.
  • Repeat the action in the mid-afternoon. Another walk around the office or the outside of the building, a few good deep breaths, an energy bar or drink and then back to work to have a renewed boost of energy.
  • Home to meal that is good for you, with all the different type of foods. I you are living alone, then buy food that can easily be heated and give you good meals, do not stop off and get garbage food, it will just pull on your energy and give you nothing in return.
  • Two nights a week, you will be doing something you enjoy doing. It is up to you, you can take your motorcycle out of the garage and go and visit family or friends, stay for a short time and then leave before you get to tired and start to pull on them for energy. This will increase your energy by doing things that bring you pleasure, instead of staying home and worrying about live. You are taking charge and others will start to feel it -as pleasant to be around you.
  • Do something new, take a class in something fun at the local community college: Latin dancing, computer sciences, property investment, anything that will give you a feeling of learning and increase your excitement and energy level. Something new for you to talk about to friends and family. Something new for you to think about. Maybe even new people to meet and enjoy!
  • Keep your mind on the goal – of rising your energy level and decreasing your low emotional levels. Eat good food, breath deeply, get some exercise, exercise your brain with new ideas and start to give to others in small ways with no strings attached from you. I think that you are going to find it will slowly turn your mind around to a better place and you will interact with others in a stronger and more positive way.

Often Friend finds that people come to him with ideas and questions on life issues and do not realize that their problems stem from small underlying troubles. Easier things to change than the big problem that’s effecting them. It’s always hard to get the client to see…that the small changes, can make such a big effect on the big challenges in their life. But every time, they trust in Friend and do the homework, no matter how strange it seems at the time – a change does happen for the betterment of their life. Please do read about Friend and Francy and call in for a private phone reading on your own personal issues or business soon. Thank you, francy

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Confusion – Friend’s Daily Offering; On removing Confusion on life choices and bring them into clarity
 
 There are so many words, actions, responsibilities and time constraints coming from all sides of your life, to add upset and confusion over an unexpected incident is totally understandable. Reacting to that incident is now your choice. You must learn to react to a negative situation slowly with calm, let it flow over you and let it unfold in front of you before you react. Keep your anger, fear or confusion to yourself and just let the energy of the situation surround you. Know that your own inner strength will keep you safe and allow the people around you to act out their frustrations or anger. As soon as you can, remove yourself from the situation.

Give yourself private time to replay the incident or situation in your mind as you lift yourself up and away from it. View it as if it were happening to another. See if you played a part in the incident or if you were just a viewer. Think it over; do not make a statement on your own behalf or for the other person. Think it over; replay the incident/situation again in your mind’s eye. See if you heard the words and actions in correct order. When you have done your work on this issue and you feel you have put it into its own place, then allow yourself to feel.

Is it anger, it is disappointment, is it sadness, is it doubt? Take a few moments of quiet and talk it through in your mind to yourself. Lay down the ideas you have – what did you do to begin the incident, did you add to the fire, did you simply stand and become a part of it, or did you get swept up in someone else’s negative energy? Now that you have gone over it in your mind – release it.

To do that-  take three deep breaths and then just blow out the confusion and let it dissipate. If the situation made you uncomfortable, you know you will not repeat the action you took nor will you encourage the actions that others showed to you. You will look at the incident as a negative action that you do not intend to allow around you again.

Make a list; actually write down three things that will alert you to the same behavior in yourself or others in the future. These three things will then be the keys to avoid. If you see them coming into your life again, you will walk away and make serious changes to remove the negative actions before they manifest into a repeated situation.

My example to you may be: 1/ your day was very stressed and you were down in energy 2/the communication between you and another was just not successful and you both interpreted words in the wrong way 3/the other person was on a short fuse of temper and you may have sparked it with your body language or words. Learning these or other actions that were taken before the incident, means you can make changes. Your personal energy must be stronger and if you need to take more breaks or eat, drink or nap than that is what you have to do during your busiest days. You have to work on your communications skills or learn to read others when they do not understand you and give it a break.  Be aware that others have days filled with just as much, if not more, stress than your own. Or they have a special emotional or physical challenge that is pushing them into negative energy.  Read those things and do not judge, just take note not to allow the combination of them to mix and explode into a situation in the future.

Since you are unable to change the past, or change others there is only the future and your own actions. If you took a neutral stance during the situation, you did not respond or entered into the negative energy – that was a strong position to take. You then removed yourself from the negative energy and have taken time to review the situation again in your mind. Showing self honesty of the review as if you were a neutral self-judge – you have pulled up and away and taken a look at your actions and those of others with a third person’s view. You have taken your deep breaths to release the confusion. You have written down three key things that will signal the oncoming of a similar incident in the future and how to avoid it. Now, you have to do the hardest thing, you have to refocus your mind to a new thought pattern and let this one fade. In order to be productive, you have to learn to experience, review and release. It’s now time to release and move on leaving the negative energy and feelings of confusion behind.

This is a lesson that is very hard to do and really takes repeated practice to perfect. But once you start to do this with little and large incidents that upset and confuse you in your life – you will see that they will not be repeated. They will diminish because you take note of the cause and then you empower yourself to move forward to a new thought and action so your future is in your own control.

To achieve a circle of comfort and positive actions around you at all times is something that has to be practiced to succeed. But once you have the steps in place and you have experienced the change of negative to positive thought patterns – you will find your life changing dramatically.  

The easy life choice is to react to a negative situation or person with your verbal skills and debate and argue with them. To inflame the situation and make your own thoughts on the matter the most important heard that day. To walk away knowing you were right  – and they – wrong.

The hard life choice is to restrain yourself from reacting, to make your involvement nonexistent and allow the incident to work its way out to nothing. Being a controlled student of metaphysics is always challenging are you up to the challenge? Do you really think you can walk and experience the path, or just talk about it?

The most successful people in all walks of their lives are the ones that are true to their own actions and not afraid to review and change those actions and their forward direction for the better of all. 

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Protection –from a sudden change into a downward spiral of life – Friend’s Daily Offering

When you find that you have things happening to you that are out of your own normal range of functioning – many times that signals that you have stepped out of bounds of your own personal protection bubble.

Each person has a range of protected area around their body that they keep on a daily basis. This area can be large or small that’s set up between each person’s feelings of well-being.  But the important thing is to start to be aware of this protection area and enlarge it as you move through life.

Your protection can be attacked by your own energy level. If you have had health challenges even as small as a cold or bad allergies, your body and your mind are tired and the protection level can be down. Your mind can wander and think about other things and not pay attention to the small clues your body is giving it that something is amiss. Then add different things to that like stress, a break-up in a relationship, a move, a new job, or an upset in your finances as examples. Those all will bring your energy down and therefore your protection level around your body grows weaker.

 

So let us talk of examples. Roger had a very good job in real estate and was producing a solid income which gave him a lifestyle that was very comfortable. He was a person in his late 40‘s and was working out on a regular basis. Life was good until one of the homes he sold had problems with the sale and the buyer was upset with him and started to make a fuss over the sale. This moved Roger into a place at his work that was very difficult and his sales started to slump. He was trying everything to get his sales up when he injured his body at the gym in an equipment mistake. This forced him to stay at his home and just rest for a few days and during that time period both his furnace and his refrigerator went out of order. On his recovery from his injury and his return to the office he found that his job was in trouble and he was fighting just to keep his license with this broker so he could work. The next thing that happened is that his car lease was up and he had to renew it and when he went to do so he had a problem with his credit because the last two months had caused him so much financial ups and downs. The next thing that happened to him was that he was robbed, his home was entered by a group of young people and they not only took things they left the house in a bad condition. When Roger came in to have a reading with Friend he was really off his place of feeling safe and into a place of fighting for his way of life to be returned to him. What could he do to remove all of this chaos and return to his happy and prosperous life again?

Friend consulted him on a reset of his Protection Area and give his body, mind and spirit more room to feel comfortable. The area around him which had once been so strong was now eroding away and he had to concentrate on rebuilding his comfort zone and his positive outlook on his life.  

Friend had him begin with a look at the different events in his life that seemed to start and then just allow the downward spiral. That way Roger was consciously aware of these things and could take actions to counter his thoughts about them. He could not change the past, but he could make his future stronger. He was asked to start a journal and write out the different things that had started to bother him and see if they had a string running through them. This step cannot be ignored, it has to be done. To change the future into a positive, you have to know and accept that you have had negatives in your past. Friend asked him to write down five things that he had always enjoyed about his life and how he felt about them.
 Roger chose to write:

1-      His home was so peaceful and very organized that it gave him a feeling of joy each time he went home. Now, he had lost that feeling because first the two major repairs signaled to him that the house was getting old and would need updating.  Then the feeling of invasion of his privacy and peace when the young teens had robbed him. He was now thinking that he would have to move to feel safe again in a home.

2-      He had always opened his eyes in the morning and felt happy about going to work. He would review his day and be excited about the prospect of new sales and new clients. Now, he dreaded going to work and felt that the clients all disliked him and although he had done nothing wrong in his business dealings, his colleges were treating him as though he was not a sincere business person. He was feeling trapped and did not know how to get over this hump.

3-      He had felt no worry over money for a very long time. He lived within his budget because reality had its ups and downs. Yet, he always felt if he saw something he wanted he could buy it within a month or so and get it paid off right away. Now, he felt he was walking on eggshells with his income. His business was down so much that he was afraid to buy anything and he had even started to take a lunch to work to keep his monthly costs down.

4-      The one thing he was most proud about was his body and the good shape he was in now that he was middle aged. His recent injury had been his first and he was shocked at how painful it had been and how long it was taking to heal. He felt out of shape and his body felt like it had changed into an older version of who he thought he was before.

5-      He had always felt good about his alone time. He enjoyed working out, reading and listening to audio books and music. He had taken a few classes at night and he loved to sail and play poker with friends. Now, for the first time, he really felt lonely. He did not have anyone to share his problems with the last couple of months and he realized that even friends could not be told about his business problems and no one had been there for him when he went through his injury.

Friend’s Next Step:

 Friend put Roger on a mission to bring a state of protection back into his life and then work on each of the issues and find ways to make them work for him again. He was to begin with getting quiet in the morning, before he began his day, and to feel and see in his mind’s eye a whirlwind of white light swirling around him until it left a clear cylinder of energy around his body. This energy could not be seen by others, but it could be felt by Roger. This was to be his actual protection bubble and he was to be very serious about building it and keeping it a few inches away from his body each morning.  As he went forward during his day he was to take a few moments of quiet to re-energize his bubble of protection.

Friend asked Roger to tackle his work place problems. Was he able to mend the unrest he felt from the staff or was it time to start at another company and begin again? He had his own list of clients so the move would not change the quality of care he gave to them and the change would not mean any financial hardship, since his commissions would be the same. Friend asked Roger to write about his feelings over a new job for three nights. When he was back talking with friend again, he felt excited about making a change to something new. He now had ideas of a new marketing theme and he was really on his way to a new job place before he actually left the one where he had worked for the past seven years.

The house was next. Friend cautioned Roger not to make too many changes in his life all at once. He felt the change in the job was enough and it would take a few months for him to relocate at the new position and get feeling confident in his income. At that time, if he really felt his home was bothersome to him, he would be in a better place to make a change.

Roger continued with friend’sreadings working on ideas for sales and marketing – even in a down turn economy and Roger started to feel the renewal of his personal business strength. He worked at his new job and then in about nine months Roger worked with a buyer that needed the exact description of Roger’s home. Roger told him he had been thinking of moving and the buyer was free to come and see his place. The buyer was interested and Roger invited in another Realtor to oversee the transaction so it would be right for them both. Within sixty days Roger was in a new home and had adopted a dog and started to run every day and enjoy getting his body strength back again.

In his next reading with Friend – Roger discussed the renewal of his life. He not only felt strong again, but he felt he was in control and it was up to him to stay aware of Protection even when his life seemed so good. That protecting his body, mind and spirit on a daily basis kept him closer to his own strength and closer to his feelings of spirituality. It was at this reading that Friend mentioned to Roger that he would be meeting a person very soon that he would find attractive and very funny. Four months later Roger helped a lovely lady unload her rented moving truck, next door. He not only helped her place her things in the house but he began dating his new next door neighbor.

Roger’s success came from not giving in to things around him and allowing his life to slide downhill. He refused to take on the spiral effect and just paddle through it. He took action and with Friend’s guidance, Roger worked for and found the answers to his questions. He learned more about his own reactions to negative things floating around him. He noted that he had to be aware of his own personal protection and keep it strong. As he went forward with his life, he was not afraid of taking new steps and repairing old challenges. Roger now feels that he should not let his life just drift without being aware at all times that good things come with consistent movement towards a plan of action, work and creativity.  At the same time, others may find Roger’s success something to envy and even want to harm in some way. But Roger now is keeping a protection bubble of awareness around his body. He’s aware to keep the protection pumping when he feels tired or unwell, upset, or stressed. Keeping his core strong and protected is now allowing him to keep growing and enjoy all aspects of his life. 
Friend has been doing readings since 1983 and he is always pleased to help others with his insight to information – Please read how to schedule your reading with friend…thank you, francy

 

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