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Channeling Friend’s Daily Offering – information taken from Life Readings Channeled through Friend since 1983 and edited for privacy

ESCAPE Friend in phone reading with client: I understand you feel totally terrified. You have no money, no job, you have no place to live and you have left the relationship you thought would make you happy. So, just know I understand that every single step you have taken is scary and you have no other alternative but to make all of these changes. You are the brave one, you are the one to celebrate as FREE – you have chosen loving yourself over losing yourself – I am very pleased with your actions and proud of you.

  1. First, you have to find a place to live. I would march right up to the nearest church and ask them for their community outreach program to help you. Even if it is one night’s rest in the church, you will be able to sleep and get rest. They will help you, they are there to help you. Do not be afraid to ask for help, that is what people have been giving their Sunday collections toward. You will get a connection for emergency money for food and a place to live.
  2. There are special shelters for those that have fear from abuse, you need to ask about them and have someone take you there. Do not wander around where you can be seen – if you are in danger, ask others to help you out of danger.
  3. Then the next step is to go to the Department of Human Resources in your area and get bus passes, food coupons, and direction with job placement. They will give you a listing and ask them as many questions as you can. You will need to have a mail box for most of your information coming to you. I would ask at the church or the shelter if you can use that address for a month for a mail box – so you can get your help and then you will be in a new place to live and you can use your own address.
  4. Just stand in line and stand up straight and tell them your story as you know it to be true. There is nothing you have done to be ashamed of – you have just had things happen that now have to be corrected. The staff at these places are trained to help you, they may be over worked so be very patient and always smile and say thank you for your time. That is how you get helped before others, you show them you appreciate their care, not act like you deserve the help.
  5. Now the hardest thing is to begin to think of yourself as already in your new home, in your new job and in your new life. You have to sit and wait in lines at these places, so just rest and think about your future. What type of apartment you want to have around you. Picture the windows bringing in light, the paint all clean and the kitchen all bright. Picture nice furniture in the place with a special chair for you to use at night. Then picture a job place, busy, interesting, nice people to work along side of and the boss welcoming you into the job. Keep your mind focused on success even if all around you says failure – you have to think success.
  6. Force out the old negative bad thoughts, the worry over the past, the fear over the physical violence – everytime you catch yourself in worry – think about that new apartment, what color will you paint it, what kind of furniture will you fill it with and what will be in your cupboards or closets. Force your mind to think positive and fruitful thoughts…keep on the future, make your mind work in a way that will bring good things into your life, not repeat old ways of sadness.
  7. Think of three things that you are going to do for yourself when you get your job. A. buy a new purse, B. buy bananas just for you C. pick up a green plant at the store to enjoy. This is your life, what are your own three things to look forward to bringing into your life?
  8. Write down notes, take note of the names of people that help you and are kind, you can call them back if you get into a problem or have a question. Write down your personal information in a good easy to read printing. You do not want to have anyone skip over you because your form was not filled out.
  9. Remember, you are not at this point because you did any thing wrong, you are here because you are choosing a new life and that’s a good thing that has an element of excitement in it. Yes, it is scary, but Yes it is exciting. Keeping safe, if you need a shelter..you have to admit you are in trouble and you need a haven to be safe. Just as you would reach down and pick up a small kitten in the pathway of a large charging dog…so will others reach over and guide you to a shelter that is protected from anyone that wants to do you harm.

Your mind is your key…your mind, not your body. You have to think; I have a new job, I have a new home, I am safe and I am ready to begin this new life. No matter what you age, or how you look, or how you talk, you have to think NEW LIFE. You have to repeat it over and over and even when you are confronted with fear, you have to repeat it and believe it. Others will help you, but you have to ask. This is not the time to be the independent uppity lady who knows it all – this is the time, when you simply are honest about where you are and ask to be guided to places that can give you assistance.

To be brave enough to leave an uncomfortable place that still gave you a home, food and a place to belong – that was very hard to do. You have already taken those steps. The rest of your journey is just a journey. If you take it wisely, the journey will find an ending that gives you peace and your own life back again. No more living through another’s life…now you will have your own.

Now remember, do not allow yourself to think, I haven’t worked in a long time I don’t know what kind of a job I could get! NO, you have to think about how the job is going to make you feel…not what kind of job…how it will make you feel. I have a good job with a paycheck, I go to work with nice people, I stay busy and feel good about my work and I come home and can afford an apartment and food and I am safe. That is how you think about the job, not in terms of fear, but in terms of being content and happy to go to work, again!

Stop thinking about how you look, if you are to thin or too heavy, or have no clothes no one cares about those things but you. No one sees that but you, you have to force yourself to see your own loving body in a healthy light with new, clean clothing and know you are going to be health and well and serve your new life with joy, no fear. (End of shared reading)

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Friend’s Daily Offering is collected from Channeled Readings since 1983 and is edited for privacy.

Deep Worry Over Moneya condition that affects so many people in different ways that Friend wanted to share how he handles it on a one on one – this is totally different for each person that comes to him for a reading – the following is just a sample of one of his readings.

Client to Friend in Channeled Reading: I am overwhelmed with fear over money. I simply am stuck in the middle of so many different things that are affecting me that I find myself trapped in fear. I try to change my brain but I am thinking panic all the time and it is ruining my relationships and my whole life.

Friend to Client via phone Reading: I am so sorry you have this in your life. So, let’s talk a little about it. You have been a person in the past with a good income; I can feel that you have had a lot of prosperity, so I suppose this down turn has you confused.

Client to Friend: It does, you are right, I have had a good job all my life and now the work is simply not there. Plus, my wife’s health is not good and she has required a lot of time off from her work and our son is now in need of extra help financially and I am just not there for him at all.

Friend to Client: I understand that means that you are stuck in a place where you began to have lack and then it just got caught up in more and more. So, first, let’s talk about being brave enough to believe in a plan of action. What I will share sounds so benign that it could never help you…but I assure you it does help. So, I am going to ask you a favor and to follow these steps and just give it a try. After all, you are talking to me today because things are so bad you need guidance, so give this a chance.

Now we will begin. Fear is simply not allowed in your life, because it kills so many other emotions. You do understand that everyone has fear, but it has to be put down immediately in order for your life to flow. So fear is out. Now that sounds easy but before we talk about prosperity, we have to deal with this overwhelming fear issue right now to get it taken care of from this moment on.

  • The moment that you feel fear, just let it flow over you. Take note of what the source of the fear is at the time. You may automatically think its fear of not having enough to pay bills, so you ignore the bill pile. But it may be that you’re really fearful of telling your wife that money is at a very critical low and she has to understand that spending needs to be stopped not just reduced. What is your fear? You see, fear could be something totally different from what you think and to dissipate the fear, you have to know what it is that you are worried about to the point that brings feelings of fear.
  • Once the feeling of fear comes over you. How is it starting to form in your mind? Do you feel alone, do you want to hide the feelings; can you share your feelings? Many times people find that the feeling of fear is more the feeling of being totally alone facing a problem. That brings on the feeling of fear, so this is when you have to reach out and talk to your wife, or your best friend, sibling, parent or so on. The person you confide in to bring you a feeling that the worry you have is now voiced and out in public. Many times keeping problems to yourself, because you feel they will bother others, or bring embarrassment, will start the downturn of worry into fear and then make it worse and worse.
  • Facing the problem, talking about the problem is the way that you can take the fear down into small pieces to get rid of it or reduce it down to a place that you find it less stressful.
  • Dealing with the worse. I have many clients that come to me for reading in the middle of a crisis. They may have a spouse in hospital and they want to talk about how to deal with their health and get them through the crisis. They are often shocked when I ask them to spend a moment to think about what would happen if their spouse was suddenly gone. They do not want to talk about anything that depressing – they want to think of how to make the spouse well. I do not bring up the subject to depress them; I bring up the worse thought – to give it light. If you talk about the worse that could happen and get a feeling for it and roll it around in your mind. Then you can put those feelings away and re-direct your mind to the present and the healing of the spouse. The mind is now able to release the inner fear of the unknown and deal with the current emergency with a clear view.
  • I would like you to do some journaling. I know you are busy, tired and journaling may seem childish. I assure you it is not childish, it is how you figure out problems for yourself. Journaling is done in private; your thoughts are your own, so make this a private task. Get a spiral notebook and just sit down before you go to bed and write a few things down for me. I want you to do this for seven days. The mind and body have a rule of healing that is seven days to make a start, 21 days to change a habit, 84 days to change your health – so there is some work to do.
  • Write down each evening one page with three things that are the worst outcome to your current top three problems. Face it and write it down. You would lose all your money in your savings, you could lose your home, you could lose your job, and you could lose your marriage. Write down only three problems that would be the worst, then under each of those write down three things that you think would be the worst about those problems. If you lose all your savings you would probably lose your credit line and that would start another line of problems and so on. If you lose your marriage, you would have to move out and live on your own, not see your children as much, suffer from the loss of your friendship with your wife. You see how it goes, you face – not solve – just face the worst of your issues. The worst thoughts right on the paper…day after day.
  • New Journal Page each night: Three things that you want to do when the money comes back into your life – just three things each night. Maybe you will buy something, repair something, or go somewhere. But write three things down on a new page, each night.
  • New Page each night: Three things that you can do to bring in money from the universe that you are not doing now. Think about this. You cannot write down more work at work. No, you have to think of things to do to bring in money from any other source than you already have at your finger tips. You could write down something that you could sell on eBay, you could write down a service you could do for others, a small business that you could start, a second job you could do on the weekends, or any other way that money could come to you from the universe. The Universe meaning from any and all directions in any or all ways – without limits.
  • Now, one more thing. In a private place you need to write down a line of positive thinking that you can see during the day. Maybe put it on your computer screen or your bathroom mirror, or on your car dashboard, or the refrigerator. You need to write it down and you need to say it a minimum of three times a day – out loud…so, you can hear yourself saying the words: “I have an infinite abundance of love, money and health in my life and my needs are always met – I feel safe and I feel loved”

     

OK, that’s that for now. You have some thinking to do on this. Each night you have writing to do. Each day you have thoughts to review and change. You have your positive motivation to read and you have to trust in me. I know this is not giving you a check to walk out the door with or solving world peace. But you have to understand that it takes small movements to begin a big change. If you watch a bird, they will begin to just flap their wings and then they rise. This is just wing flapping I know, but trust me when you come back to me for your next reading in a week – we will both feel a change in your prosperity to the better. It may be tiny or it may be a big boost, but there will be a change and then we will take the next step.

Thank you for reading through this small edited version of a Reading with Friend. We would enjoy working with you, on your own private concerns please visit our pages about us and how to schedule an appointment with us. We do our appointments over the phone and talk about personal issues, business and spiritual questions. Thank you, francy

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